my mom died in jan.we took care of my dad at home as long as we could,he has demensia he is now in a home.before mom died i called my brother to come up from tx to mn for support i said they could stay here when they got here what a mistake,he and his wife stole papers and money my dad still has things in his room,took collecter coins and cash,his wallet with debit card and id. he used his debit card to pay off a $900 some bill for funeral hen he did that he took $5 some of his social security mney that was suppose to go to nursing home not furneral now my dad has to take it out of his personal funds.my bro has not been around alot 6 mos. out of the year he is in tx.he took control of dads health care after i have been here for years doing it.now i have to pay a lawyer but iam on disability money is running out and taxes is due no money to pay that eigther.my bro's personality has changed soo much we don't know this man,dad wants me to have the house but with out money i can not stay here.
in response to positive thoughts...hi, im ok just stressed out a little i miss my mom but not much time for moarning fighting my brother.i don't know what to do i do have a handicaped van to sell cheap to pay bills i will buy a junker later.
Wow. I'm sorry to hear about the loss of your mother and that your father is now in a home. I'm praying for you. Since your father wants you to have the house is it possiable maybe you could get a room mate to help pay for things. I am sorry I wish I could help you more. Thankyou for sharing. Here on aidspage you are never alone.